8 simple ways to make positive change in people's life

Let help each other
The world is getting deprived of humanity, people are getting depressed to the extent of taking their lifes themselves.

The reality facing us shows that some people are in dear need of support, care, friends and so on, thou they might be rich but still they felt inferior. Many people commits suicide for one reason or the other, but one reason that I know for sure which might have caused this (suicide) is depression.

Depression could be caused by lack of associates and friends, and it could lead to a serious and deadly situation in the society.

Since its a responsibility on you and I to curb mischief in the world and also to make this world a better place, I intend to write on how to make changes in people's live.

No, no, no it doesn't require only money to make change in people's live, you can do it without money, although if you are wealthy you need to be philanthropic and generous.

In here I have compiled different strategies/ways in which one can make positive changes in people's live.
  • Smiling
  • Playing with them
  • Greeting
  • Praying for them
  • Pay them a visit
  • Stand for them
  • Dine with them
  • Listen to their complain


1. Smiling:-

Some people might think this is a small thing and does not make impact on how people feel but it does.
Your expression, the way you meet people matters a lot, many could look at the needy with disgust, but it shouldn't be because if they were short of sustenance and also lack support, they could become threat to your life + its disgusting to their personality and also shows a sense of lack of feeling or care for them.
For example if your boss is coming in front of you with his face frowned, your reaction would be different from the time when he comes with a smiling face, do you know the difference? Its the impression that both have on you as you will not want to be treated with a frown face, dont treat the needy, opressed and depressed badly.
Smiling face is a friendly face and a friendly face is a gift which should be shared with everyone.
Smiling is charity whether you have money to give or not make sure you give smile to them.


2. Playing with them:-

At your leisure time when you have nothing to do or when you are with your friends playing, you could call them(depressed) to join you to play, through this they could overcome their depression, live a positive life and also make impact in your life too.
By playing with them you reduce the effect of depression in them.


3. Greeting:-

One of the most easiest and stress free thing to do is greeting. A simple 'Hi' or 'how are you?' really means a lot to some people. It is an important catalyst in human relationship.
But how many of us do care to do this to the depressed, and the needy, they are also entitled to our greetings, they are human and sane, giving them no money might not be your fault but refusing to greet them is not good habit rather.
Your gate man, the dull students in your school, the poor man in your society and your neighbours are entitled to your greetings. Show them some respect and love, let them feel welcomed in the society by greeting them.
Don't be discouraged because you weren't greeted first but you could just humble yourself by greeting them first, its doesn't mean that they are bigger than you, it just shows that you an ambassador of humility.


4. Pray For Them:-

Knowing that God as the power over everything, He cures and also have the power to heal the broken wounds in the heart, how about we call this mighty being to help these depressed people all over.
One of the advantage of this method is that it has no boundary, you could help every depressed individuals around the world by praying to that mighty being. So please use it.


5. Pay Them A Visit:-

For me, my friend's visit to me increases the strength of our mutual relationship. How about you do the same to increase your mutual relationship with people especially the depressed and also to unite your society around you.
Paying a visit to depressed individuals per week using 30min each at max is better and more preferable than not visiting at all.


6. Stand For Them:-

One of the things that is deprived by the low class member of society is support, either when they are oppressed or not.
So by standing for them with the little that you have could boost their morale.
Thinking that you must have money to be able to stand for them to me is ignorance.
Money isn't compulsory to change people's live just like the prophets of God don't do.
You could just be like them, you could just copy there footsteps and also help people with what you have(education, good ideas etc).
The low class member of the society could find it difficult to defend their rights.
You could educate these people on how to fight for their rights legally(if you know) or you could just help them by propagating the abuse done against for the public to hear.



7. Dine With Them:-

Eating together is an important way that can be used in helping depressed people.
Eat with them, let them also have in their memories that they have ate with someone who somehow cares about them.
"Dining together brings love and unity" don't forget.


8. Listen To Their Complain:-

 You know we all have one thing or the other that we do not like, or we wish it could change somehow, so does these low class people have such right. They shouldn't be forced to accept just anything and everything because they get hurt just like you do, they feel pain just like you do, hence they deserve to be listened to.
Listen to their demand, note down what they like and what they do not and try as much as possible to amend your misbehaviours(If you could find them in your character)
For example if they complain about your proudness either because you are brilliant, rich, popular, influential and so on calm down and do away with your ego and form the habit of helping people around you.


Here they are, the 8 great strategies to make changes in people's live especially, the poor, depressed and the low class member of your society.

Make that change in your society, your country and the world as a whole.

Don't wait for what the rich could do to help them, you could just start making life easy for others and that is more pleasing than seeing them suffering from mental and physical injuries.
If you could do that, believe me you are a HERO.


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Thanks.

2 comments:

  1. Stand for them! Such an important point- these days it's difficult to find friends that will actually defend you and fight on your behalf! Great post!

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